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  1. alla Adagio

    alla Adagio Porn Star

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    To add on to TS here: He’s completely correct. However, we do expect some bumps in the road. We hope to only have positive experiences, but people are still people and that always leaves the door open to people misleading you, lying to you, etc. You absolutely must have a rock solid relationship in order to survive some of these unfortunate events
     
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  2. curiousboy9

    curiousboy9 Sex Lover

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    I’d love to try swinging with my wife but, I’m not sure if she’d be into it and I don’t know how to bring it up without having her think im nuts. We are deeply in love and have a very sexual and healthy relationship. Great communication too.
     
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  3. alla Adagio

    alla Adagio Porn Star

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    Sounds like you’re on the right path so far. I unintentionally brought the topic up. I mentioned to my wife that I thought it could be hot and fun to bring another guy in. She certainly didn’t say no. She actually then, weeks later, brought up the idea of another couple instead. Naturally, swinging and going to parties has been the topic we’ve enjoyed talking most about lately. You never know unless you say something.

    Is she the jealous type? If you two enjoy porn together, why not pop on a swinging video and ask her how she feels about it?
     
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  4. curiousboy9

    curiousboy9 Sex Lover

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    We have yet to watch porn together although we both know that we watch it separately (me more often). She’d possibly be jealous if there was another girl with us but, another man might make her feel like all the attention is on her. I’ll start by watching porn with her and delicately bringing up the topic.
    Thanks!
     
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  5. thinskin

    thinskin Porn Star Banned!

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    Give her dildo a name!!

    Yes yes it is evening on my side of the rock so I am smoking!;)

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  6. BeatItUpRight

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    Don't feel sorry for me. I don't need or want your pity. We as people decide what we will and will not accept in your lives and relationships. That's our right as human beings to decide when we feel we have been wronged. We decide what we will allow someone to do to us, what crosses the line and how it effects that persons value in our lives. We set our own standard for what we feel is relationship,gf,wife material.

    I Iike women. If my woman wants to bring home a woman then I'm fine with that. I will allow that inside of our relationship as long as it's something we do together. If you would have actually read then you wouldn't have asked that question but moving on.

    When it comes to a relationship I won't accept a woman that's going to fuck other men. I don't see a point in being tied to a female that's going to be out fucking other men. Mind as well be a FWB, I hold women that I'm in a RELATIONSHIP with to a higher standard. If she is going to entertain other men then she no longer meets that standard and it's my right to dismantle the relationship. At that point she is not anything more than just another female in the world fucking. She's no longer special in my eyes because other men can have her.

    A woman that is devoted to me as the only man in her life is worth a thousand regular women. Once she demonstrates to me that she isn't that woman, then she's no better than the rest. Therefore she does not deserve my love and affection more than just sex, just like any other person that im just fucking.

    Some men allow themselves to look at a woman that cheats or fucks other men in their relationship and still see value in that woman. I am not one of those men. I see value in the women that other men want but only I can have. Her loyalty to me is value, I don't not reward or accept disloyalty. That's my choice in what I will and will not allow, that's one of my standards.

    We are all grown if that is in part or in whole disagreeable to that women then there's no need to be serious to start. As a grown woman if we move to a relationship that means she is aware of, and has agreed to this. If she goes back on her word then she is a liar, this means I can longer trust her word. Again someone that isn't trust worthy has no value to me.

    Like I said before we as individuals decide what we will allow. What treatment and actions we will and will not accept in a relationship. In my book if a woman is with me, then that's my woman. She represents me as I represent her. We agree to and give our word, our loyalty, our trust to each other. If it is broken on either side then there is consequences for the action. If I fuck up and do something against her will and acceptance. Then, I have to accept the consequences of that action. Even if it means she walks away and cuts me out of her life. Same as if she fucks up and does wrong by me then she has to accept the consequences. That's what's called an UNDERSTANDING!
     
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      And you know red is the favorite flavor lol. Girl what time is dinner? I'll cook if I can turn you into a sundae after.
       
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      Cool whip??;)
       
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      And then some lol. Put cheesecake and Nutella hand prints on ya ass cheeks. See that's us right there chocolate and cream. We go together like that.
       
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      Cheesecake and nutella?? Are we going big or going home?? ;)
       
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      I just want to live in your mind after I go home. Only way to be sure you invite me back;):kiss:
       
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  7. alla Adagio

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    With all that being said and I understand where you’re coming from, why bother posting on a swinger thread when that lifestyle obviously doesn’t fit into yours?
     
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      You know I don't follow many people, especially without pics but, I think I'm guna follow you.
       
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      Thanks for the warning.....all this time we been arguing/getting along...... and you are just now gonna follow me?:p joking about the warning. Lol
       
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      Can't just jump in head first, I had to dip my toe in. See if your waters are warm.
       
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  8. Green Flames

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    I’m feeling sappy everyone. Ignore if it’s too much.

    @alla Adagio. You have been home to me since we started, and before that you were always one of my favorite people. Even in the beginning I never thought I would be lucky enough to have my best friend also be my partner in life. To think about it now amazes me on how little I knew then. It doesn’t even compare to how much you mean to me now.

    Passed the sappy portion now, this way of life isn’t for everyone. I feel it will be amazing to share this experience with my husband, but it was also something I wouldn’t have even entertained with anyone else I’ve been with. You absolutely need communication so you can set up rules that are accepted by each of you. If you feel pressured at any time then take a step back and discuss your feelings about why you felt that way. We’ve discussed this on the forum before. There is a difference between sex and love. I see having enjoyable experiences together as a couple and being surrounded by like minded people who see it the same way is exciting.
     
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  9. thinskin

    thinskin Porn Star Banned!

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    Absolutely right!! If you cannot be honest with each other it is a non-starter!

    Thinskin
     
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  10. steamy4u99

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    We've been in the lifestyle for years. We have had some great times and met some great people. We always said if we had to do it all over again, we'd jump right in.
     
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  11. alla Adagio

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    That’s comforting to hear. I know we’re very eager and excited to start
     
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  12. thinskin

    thinskin Porn Star Banned!

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    Sorry I thought you started already!!;)

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  13. geileklodders

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    What made you stop?
     
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  14. steamy4u99

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    We never really did. We still play once in awhile, just not near as frequently as we once did.
     
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  15. steamy4u99

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    Nice, one word of advice if I may. Make sure that you are both on the same page with everything you may get involved in. We've witnessed couples torn apart over this lifestyle.
     
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  16. alla Adagio

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    It may seem that way to others because we’re both very open about sex with each other. We were hoping to go to a house party this weekend but we couldn’t find anyone to watch the little ones. So it’s now planned for next Saturday. I’m sure it won’t take long for us to become veterans ;)
     
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  17. alla Adagio

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    Thanks for the advice and you’re not the first person to say those exact words to us. We’ve talked about it extensively and in great detail about what we want, expect, issues that may come up and situations and experiences we don’t want. I know we’re ready ;)
     
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  18. Shay4u2playwith

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    We do it sometimes. Mainly while on vacation and with just other guys. He's not gay but likes to watch me although he has joined a few times. I just do it to make him happy. Don't get me wrong, the sex is great most of the time because of the rush of being with a strange man. The first time was about 3 years ago and we only do it every now and then. I wouldn't call it a lifestyle really as much as exploring sexual fantasies
     
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  19. alwayshorny2020

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    I want to. Wife and I have discussed adding another male for mmf play. Her main concern was my jealousy somehow I have to convince her if I’m involved it would be fine

    We watch porn together, her choice it’s nearly always Mmf or mmmf play.
    So maybe one day, here’s hoping.
     
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